Summer fun
Vacation time is here and most mothers are
looking here and there and everywhere for some camp or the other
to send their children to. You! takes a look at the pros and
cons of the camp regimes...
By Daler Shah
All year long children sweat it out in their
schools; most stay buried in their books, some manage to hit an
extracurricular activity or two, but often there is no
relaxation from their chores and activities. Summer vacations
come as a blessing and a reprieve from the dreary schedule for
not just kids but mothers too. However, vacations for most
mothers are not a time to be wasted, and they arm themselves
with a bundle of brochures of camps and
summer schools where they can send their young ones off to. I
remember a time when such things were a nuisance for kids but
these days they're more of a welcome change.
There are a number of reasons that make these
summer affairs extremely attractive.
Most vacations are more than two months long;
that's an ample time to fall of one's routine and become lazy
and sluggish. You can take a perfectly healthy child and place
him under house arrest for two months and turn him into a big
ball of mush. Camps and summer schools not only keep them
active, they ensure that kids do not lose their routine
completely. "If you spend more than two months doing
absolutely nothing and then are told to go into a life that's
completely full... an adult cannot deal with that kind of
pressure, why do parents expect their kids to? Kids are kids.
They need to have some kind of stability you can't just throw
them from one life to another and expect them to adjust. Going
back to school and the long routine is exceptionally harder for
children that spend their days off doing nothing but lying
around watching TV, than those that were busy with swimming
classes or a language course for example," says Reba,
housewife in Karachi.
The summer break is also a very good time for
kids to pick up skills that they normally do not have time for.
It isn't uncommon to find a child dragging himself through
school, only to return home for a small nap before he is sent
off to his tuition centre for further work on what he learnt in
school. Most of the time after they return home sometime in the
evening, kids do not want to learn anything else even if they
themselves love the activity at hand. Girls will tell you that
they would love to learn glass painting, silk painting, fabric
painting etcetera, but how many of them would be willing to sit
though a lesson after a long mind enslaving day? Shahana, doctor
and mother from Lahore, says, "Most of the time even if I
would suggest something like a weekend class my kids would hear
none of it. They wanted to have their fun, at least on the
weekends if nothing else, and quite literally do nothing more. I
have two girls and they both have wanted to learn how to
glass-paint for an eternity, but the only time they could
actually do this was during the vacations, when they could
attend their little candle making and painting courses. These
classes don't last more than 3 hours; they don't have to wake up
early in the wee hours of the morning to attend them. Right now
they can easily go, but otherwise there is no such hope!"
For the young ones their holidays are more of
an escape from their lives, however, the lives of their parents
will be no different than they were before the vacations
started. Some parents find it absurdly hard to deal with their
children during the vacations; if both the mother and the father
have jobs then having their offspring forced on them all day can
get impossible to manage. Father of two from Karachi, Adeeb
tells us about his job and his children, "Both my wife and
myself work all year along. Just because the bacha party gets
off for their vacations does not mean we can just take off from
work. A week or two at the most is manageable, but after that
it's back to work for us and back to an empty house for the
kids, which is not acceptable. I think parents should start
sending their kids to these camps ever since they're seven or
eight. It's because of these camps that my wife doesn't have to
rush home and I don't have to take time off. It's easy for the
kids too; they stay in their school routine but they're doing
things which are fun for them and make them happy. And there's
no tedious homework, that's never a bad thing for my kids!"
he laughs.
Of course there are a few parents that don't
view summer schools with such reverence.
Summer break is a break for a reason for these parents and they
don't want to put their kids in any kind of summer schools
whatsoever. Raima, housewife from Karachi, says, "Vacations
are their (kids) time off, my children always have homework from
their school to keep them occupied, I see no need to send them
off to further boggle their brain during the times. I rather let
them spend time at their cousins' houses and they too can have
sleepovers, they just get this small amount of time to relax, I
won't take it away from them," she asserts. So, some
children just get to stay home and run through all the video
games, cartoons and movies that they can find. In some cases the
homework from school piles up so high that parents can't help
but leave their kids be and ignore all summer camps and schools.
Another reason why some parents avoid camps
is because vacations for them too are a time to relax and go
away somewhere. Even if it's just the outskirts of the city for
a week,
parents need a break from their routine and they rarely ever
want to go for a comforting holiday without their offspring.
Sadiq, father of four from Karachi, says, "During the year
my wife would kill me if I tried to take the kids somewhere for
even three days because they miss out on so much work from
school and it becomes torture for them to catch up. There's
always some test that they will miss, it doesn't matter when I
plan things, there's always a test! Summers are one time where I
can take them whenever I want, be it inside the country or even
outside it. A camp means the same thing; work that they will
miss that they need to catch up on, I'm against all camps during
the summer, I just want to take my family away!" he says
enthusiastically.
Summer vacations are one time that brings
some amount of peace to both parents and their tots; for some
summer camps are the ideal way to make the vacations more fun
and to make them count, for others it's one time that they can
just do absolutely nothing and unwind. What are you doing this
summer?
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Back to retro
Every year marks the launch of new sunglass
designs from various fashion houses. This summer, large,
striking sunglasses and retro styles are setting the tone...
No outfit is complete without the perfect
selection of accessories. Sunglasses are now as important an
accessory as handbags. Not only do they protect your eyes, they
are the
perfect disguise on a not-so-social day. In fact, sunglasses are
one of the essential accessories for making a statement about
who you are.
It's also challenging to pick the perfect
pair of designer sunglasses for your face, but don't forget to
consider your hairstyle too. The focus should be how well the
entire package works together; that is, the hair, face and the
glasses. Complicated curls and fussy accessories give a
cluttered look to the face, so if you have unruly hair, keep the
sunglasses more minimalist. Round or oval frames look beautiful,
while square frames on the other hand, are too much of a
contrast. Since even short curly hair has movement, choose
frames that don't have a lot of detail. Soft and curly
hairstyles are best complemented by rimless frames and
translucent colours.
Every year marks the launch of new sunglass
designs from various fashion houses. The latest designs are
based on the feedback from the sunglasses' connoisseurs as well
as the designer's own imagination. When it comes to the form of
sunglasses, in all fashion collections, absolute winner is retro
style - large frames in the style of '50s and '60s. Frames with
way-out patterns, such as spider webs, peace signs or skulls are
very popular. Since today's styles are more fun than anything
else, everyone is able to show off their unique personality.
However, the colour in sunglasses collections became a little
bit conservative. Following the fashion, this season designers
have almost abandoned the 'acid' colours. The most popular
colours are classic - brown, black and gray. Aside from the
shapes and colours of the frames, the colour of the lenses can
also vary. Especially popular are tint-in-tint lenses.
Brown-to-grey tints are suited especially well for the street
Red, violet and green lenses are also found in this year's array
of sunglasses.
What all new styles have in common is the
extra large format. Especially large, striking sunglasses are
setting the tone. The large lenses are combined with new
materials, colours and design. All types of adornments and
precious optical characteristics are a must for sunglasses in
the glamorous look category.
Elaborate design elements turn the frame into
a proper piece of jewellery, observes fashionistas. Gucci, for
example, has adorned its current models with flowering rivets
and coat-of-arm details. Dior has lavishly decorated its
wide-framed sunglasses with Swarovski-Strass elements. And
fashion designer Christian Audigier has come up with shrill
colours in his Ed Hardy label.
But not everyone likes to wear sunglasses
that are as valuable as a small car or glittering piece of
jewellery. Those with simpler tastes can choose aviator
sunglasses for the coming season. There are many interpretations
of the classic style on the market. Aviator sunglasses are
becoming a basic in the classic-sporty area. Their advantage:
They have a style that is irrespective of age, gender and class.
Ray Ban developed the original aviator in 1937. Hollywood
celebrities popularised the aviator in the 1960s. However, the
aviators hit their all time peak of popularity in 1980s
following the movie, "Top Gun". Tom Cruise and Val
Kilmer wore these shades beautifully. The aviator is now seen on
many current celebrities such as Kayne West, Paris Hilton,
Nicole Richie, Jennifer Aniston, Lindsay Lohan and Rachel Bilson.
There are sunglasses with full frames, half-frames and rimless.
It is actually better to have two pairs of sunglasses for the
winter and summer time: metal -
for the summer and plastic - for the winter. If you are wearing
the metal frame when it's cold outside you may have a feeling of
discomfort. Plastic is not cooled and is ideal for the winter.
The second place of this season is a vintage
sunglasses style with natural and harmless materials. Remember -
no fakes, because your eye is a precious and very fragile
instrument!
Credits:
- Compilation: Shaza Khalid
- Coordination :
Thomas Fernandes
(0300-2206791)
- Photography: Nabeel Butt
- Make Up & hair :Rizwan' Salon
- Models: Diya, Kiran & Zaria
- Labels :Gucci, Parada &
Ray-Ban @ Mirage |
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My cherry tree
I am a little bumblebee,
Who lives in a cherry tree,
On top of a hill,
Next to a waterfall and a windmill,
I see the world from way up high,
When I fly around the sky.
My best friends a caterpillar,
who is sleeping in his cocoon,
He will become a beautiful butterfly very
soon,
I will teach him to fly,
And to hide from the human eye,
So he can explore this lovely place,
Without losing his innocence and grace.
Then he'll leave his tree home and fly away,
In search of wider horizons
which are up for display,
I'll wait for him while he journeys
across the globe,
I'll give him all the reasons to leave but
I'll keep the hope,
That he'll come back to this cherry tree,
When his memory reminds him of me.
I'll tell him that he'll find other friends,
And I'll pray that he stays safe and sound,
Because there will be people,
who will want to imprison him,
And tie him to the ground.
I'll invite the fireflies to dinner every
night,
And my tree will be shining will lots of
light,
So if he loses his way and it's too dark to
see,
He will be led back to my beautiful cherry
tree.
- Fatima Shah |
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happenings

Tune in all Summer
The one of a kind musical journey is back
this summer for unparalleled performances straight from the
heart of the live recording studio.
The show will feature electrifying musical
and vocal collaborat-ions, to produce some of the most magical
improvised melodies and singing, with an all star artist line
up. The Coke Studio voyage, initially announced at the Pakistan
day press conference, will debut on 14 June with sessions
culminating in an Independence Day special.
This year, the show looks to reignite
Pakistani passion and pride by chronicling a journey through a
series of episodes, each of which is based specifically, on
distinct philosophies showcasing a multi faceted Pakistani
identity: Individuality, Harmony, Equality, Spirit and Unity.
Each of these different themes will be highlighted separately in
the various episodes through a selection and combination of
artists, collaborations, music and melody. Thus individual
artists will combine and feature over several different thematic
episodes; a testament to their creativity, range and musical
versatility.
Witness the versatile Ali Zafar back on the
set in a folk fusion avatar with flautist Baqir Abbas and Ali
Hamza on the Banjo as well as the return of Strings for one
collaborative song with the Coke Studio house band. This season
also heralds an appearance by acclaimed artist Arieb Azhar; a
solo performance by musician Gurpreet Chana; classical maestro
Riaz Ali Khan fusing with music icon Atif Aslam; the pairing of
Javed Bashir's vocal prowess with Zeb & Haniya's soul and
Saddiq Sameer's Rabab; the sublime spirituality of Saieen Zahoor
in harmony with Noori's raw energy along with Rakae Jamil's
sitar; Gul Mohammad's Sarangi with Shafqat Amanat Ali's
scintillating sargarms, ultimately blending with JoSH and
Gurpreet Chana's dhol and tabla beats.
As announced earlier this year, the new
season also encompasses the show's power-house band with a
broader and exciting range of talent with the likes of Babar
Khanna on dholak, Kamran "Mannu" Zafar on Bass, Louis
"Gumby" Pinto on Drums, Omran "Momo"
Shafique on guitar, Saba Shabbir on backing vocals and Zulfiq
"Shazee" Ahmed Khan on multi percussions. New to your
screens this year are house band members Assad Ahmed, also on
guitar, Jaffer Zaidi on the keyboard, Javed Iqbal on Violin,
Natasha De Sousa as backing vocalist, Sikander on dholak and
Waris Baloo on multi percussions.
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Last year, the concept of backing vocals was
introduced with two smashing ladies who sang behind the likes of
Ali Azmat, Rahat Fateh Ai Khan, Strings and Ali Zafar. This
year,
Coke Studio returns with two talented singers, Natasha De Sousa
and Saba Shabbir, who will be heard and seen across televisions
all summer, starting June 14 at season two!
A blue blooded Karachiite, Natasha joined the
Coke Studio team last year as assistant video director and
returns to the studio in 2009 as backing vocalist. Armed with a
wardrobe of skill and talent, the girl is an actor, producer and
voice over artist by profession and has also had much singing
experience throughout her schooling years at both her school and
church choirs. In 2001, this singing sensation staged solo
opening acts for popular band Stereo Nation and bhangra
bandmaster Sukbhir.
Speaking about her involvement in a
production on the scale of the show, Natasha mentioned,
"I've been singing since I was a child in Church and School
Choirs, so music isn't exactly new to me. Acting is a passion
turned profession, and production I've learnt is the root of the
creative tree... Exposure to Choir training helps to an extent,
to understand the dynamics of harmonizing for lead vocalist.
This of course is a whole different ball game, so it's
excitingly challenging. I grew up in a household where I was not
allowed to listen to anything but gospel music till I was well
into my twenties. So later in life, when I realised I had a lot
of catching up to do I listened to just about anything I could
get my hands on from the Carpenters to modern day Qawalli."
Our second singer Saba, was born in Britain,
raised in Islamabad and has also lived in Lahore! Saba Shabbir
brings her distinct flavour back to the show's recording
platform for another season after her success last year.
Her first public performance was at the
Alhamra Auditorium in Lahore where she performed an original
song with band Knumb, after which she went on to record single
Akhri Baar with Shehryar Mirza. Her big national debut came in
2008 as backing vocalist for the first season. Her passion for
music keeps compelling her to come back to it whenever she can
take time off from her event management work. When discussed her
take on traditional vs modern music in Pakistan, Saba shared,
"I have grown up, listening to, appreciating, and absorbing
both. Our generation & our previous generations have in
fact. A collaboration between the two is like bringing it home.
The language of music is universal; each element retaining its
individuality yet coming together in perfect harmony is a
satisfying learning experience. As far as experience in this
kind of collaboration goes, I'm in pre-school and raring to go.
I have influences from both. I've been a proud part of Shahryar
Mirza's bilingual song 'Akhri baar milo', and been part of Coke
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A new saga
Learning was never this much fun!
Time-consuming loquacious learning sessions
are yesteryears saga! Today's fast paced world demands quick,
fun and interactive yet effective learning sessions. Yes, you
heard me! Learning with a tinge of fun and frolic has become the
novel mantra of the new era and is gradually gaining momentum.
Adopting the same philosophy, the Pakistan
Hairdressers and Beauticians' Association (PHABA) in
collaboration with P&G, producers of leading hair care and
beauty brand- Pantene organized a fun-filled, informative
training session for all its members. The session was reflective
of the ideologies accepted across the globe and practices
prevalent amongst the best in class. The training was conducted
by the PHABA Training Committee and President and founder of
PHABA, Ruhana Iqbal (popularly known as Bhabi), who is also one
of the pioneers of the beauty industry.
The session kicked off with an inspiring
speech by Bhabi who whilst advocating the importance of keeping
abreast with the latest developments in the Hair care industry
remarked "Hairdressers and beauticians have a professional
responsibility towards their clients and as such need to be a
master in their respective areas of expertise. After all, people
look up to us for all kinds of suggestions, fashion advice and
Hair & beauty tips. Needless to say we need to be updated
with the latest in hair care and styling techniques, Beauty
& fashion trends as well as new and improved (research
driven) products that will best serve our clients' needs."
Realising the ever-growing requirements of
quick fix hair care solutions and the incessant search of
clients for convenience coupled with quality results leading
hair and beauty artists Salman Akhund and Sehrina Salman
demonstrated some impressive 3-minute styling techniques with
minimalist use of products as well as hair damaging tools like
hair dryers and straightening irons. Salman's techniques became
the talk of the hall and his pleasant persona added an extra
zest to the already vivacious show. Salman's chant "Waqt
kam, muqabla sakht" seemed to become the mantra of the
show. His hair cuts and contemporary styles coupled with
Sehrina's makeup techniques left the audience begging for more.
The audiences' desire for more was satiated
with Nusrat Bokhari's awe-inspiring hair dos including doughnuts
to give the illusion of volume as well as trendy looks for the
more conservative clients. Her techniques were simple,
innovative and speedy. She has been in the industry for over 15
years now and is a part of PHABA's education committee as well
as the General Secretary of the Association. The organizers
truly outdid themselves,
bringing specialists, aspiring beauticians and models as well as
professional hair and beauty artists under one roof. Present
amongst the audience were some renowned personalities like Mrs.
General Yousuf who was the chief guest at the event and Akram
Khushal, a renowned Hair professional acknowledged for his
unique capability of working 11 scissors simultaneously to give
a stylish haircut in just seconds.
The training session concluded with the local
hairstylists showcasing their models with creative hair dos,
contemporary makeup and funky outfits. The platform helped to
increase their knowledge and boost their confidence as well as
gave them a sense of belonging through the recognition they
received from their participation.
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Making
a difference
By SK
Living conditions for the under privileged in
Pakistan are nothing to write home about. Millions of
Pakistanis, on a daily basis, are plagued with various problems
ranging from illiteracy to the non availability of clean
drinking water. The one way in which we can reach out to help
these people is if all the various factions of the country do
their part and fulfil their responsibility towards their fellow
countrymen and one such faction, would definitely be the
corporate sector which has seen a lot of growth over the years.
P&G is probably one of the largest consumer product
companies in the country and has been playing its part to
improve the living conditions in Pakistan for quite some time.
Through their 'Live, learn and thrive' program, they have sought
to improve the lives of millions of children across Pakistan and
have initiated a large number of programs which include a
children's safe drinking water program, various programs in
relation to educating young mothers and girls on child care and
personal hygiene and also those that aim to increase the infant
mortality rate in the under developed areas by the supply of
life saving medical equipment to various hospitals across the
country.
On the 14th of May 2009, P&G launched its
first Social Commitment report detailing the progress of its
various developmental initiatives that it has undertaken over
the years with regards to education and child health. The event
took place in the tastefully decorated Crystal Ballroom at Pearl
Continental Hotel, Karachi. . Highlighting the need to improve
childcare, Qaiser Sharif went on to relate the employees' own
participation in various endeavours on voluntary basis. Events
like these are encouraging, because one realizes that there are
people out there playing their part and more importantly they
are an incentive for us to turn around the living conditions for
the needy and the helpless. Hopefully, there will be more and
more companies and also well meaning individuals that will take
an active role in these efforts.
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Dining
the Kazakh way
Summer - the time to go to exotic locations
and taste their distinctive cuisine. For those who intend to
visit Kazakhstan, here's a brief introduction to their
traditional cuisine ...
The ninth largest country in the world,
Kazakhstan situated in Central Asia is the key to an adventurous
holiday with an abundance of terrain: flatlands, steppes,
taigas, rock-canyons, hills, deltas, mountains, snow-capped
mountains and deserts.
Kazakh national cuisine reflects the nature
of its people - its history, customs and traditions. Since old
times hospitality has been the most distinctive feature of the
Kazakh people.
They are first treated to kumys (fermented
mare's milk), shubat (fermented camel's milk) or airan
(fermented cow's milk), then to tea with milk or cream, baursaks
(fried dough balls), raisins, irimshik (dried cheese balls),
kurt (dried cheese and whey). Appetizers of horse or mutton meat
follow. Kazakhs eat at a low table called 'dastarkhan' and the
most popular dish has always been the national meat dish 'beshkarmak'
(five fingers because of the manner in which it is eaten). It is
made of large chunks of boiled meat which the host cuts and
serves to each guest according to their importance: the pelvic
bones and shin to the elderly guests of honour, the brisket to
the son or daughter-in-law, the cervical vertebra to girls and
so on. The highest ranking guest is served a sheep's head cooked
in a special way and distributes it to other guests according to
local tradition (old men, children, close and distant
relatives).
Traditionally Kazakh cuisine was mostly based
on meat and milk products. But more recently vegetables, fruits,
fish, seafood, baked dishes and sweets have been added to the
list of delights Kazakhs offer to their guests.
The delicacy of Kazakh cuisine however lies
in 'horse meat'. Horse meat, somewhat like beef and venison, is
slightly sweet, tender, low in fat, and high in protein and an
indispensable part of culinary traditions here. In Kazakhstan,
different horses are meant for different purposes like racing,
riding and work. A breeding horse, for instance, cannot be
served on the dining table!
At the country's many bazaars look for the
Korean ladies selling delicious, often spicy and garlicky salads
to take away in plastic bags. If you are vegetarian, this may be
the only decent thing you get to eat while you're in the
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interiors

Contemporary lines
Furnished on modern lines,
Nusrat and Roomi's home exudes warmth and
understated style...
By L.K
Photography by
Naqeeb-ur-Rehman
A house is made of walls and beams; a home is
built with love and dreams. Nusrat and Roomi's home clearly
reflects this philosophy. As soon as you step through the front
door of their nine-bedroom home you are engulfed with an aura of
warmth. The entrance is bright and welcoming.
The house delicately balances on the fine
lines between classic and modern. As Nusrat puts it, "I
would describe the design of our home as contemporary, elegant
and warm."
"This is actually owned and built by my
in-laws. They have been living here since 1971. Around that time
very few people chose to build houses in Defence. So in our
vicinity my father-in-law's house was among the first few
houses. Well, I joined the clan after I got married to Roomi in
2001. This is actually like our family house where we live with
our three little kids. Only last year we did the renovations and
now the home has a completely different look," narrates
Nusrat.
The living room has a rich feel with
distinctive upholstery and soft furnishing. A sumptuous range of
artifacts, textured walls and fine floors capture a sense of
elegance. "The place is filled with accessories that we
have picked up from all our trips abroad - some from London,
some from Dubai and some from Far East. We spend a lot of time
choosing objects d art for our home." However, most of
their furniture is locally sourced. The couple used local
artisans and craftsmen to make the majority of their
custom-designed furniture. "I strive for the furniture to
have symmetry and the walls to have loads of texture and colour.
I love flowing curtains and lots of white furniture. This effect
is easy to achieve and quite striking. We have also bought some
pieces of art and furniture from local designer shops like Solo,
Objects and Index." tells Nusrat.
They have a spacious dining area. "It
can seat eight to 10 people. We've enjoyed some fabulous family
meals around the table." The chandeliers in the living and
dining rooms are couple's favourite items because of their
uniqueness. They exude elegance and lend a sense of understated
style to the living and dining area.
She admits that she is always on the lookout
for accessories and artwork for her home. "My husband and I
love shopping for design items and we are always on the lookout
for new, exciting pieces, paintings and furniture."
Nusrat's favourite room is her bedroom.
"It's my sanctuary away from the crazy hectic
world outside. Each and every item in my personal room is
special to me as I selected everything myself. It's the only
room where I can be myself completely and relax," she
smiles.
As far as colours are concerned, Nusrat
believes in using subtle colours. "Colours can enhance or
destroy the atmosphere of a room. So choose very carefully. Use
the right colours in the right places. Make sure you do not use
too many colours when decorating a room. If you can theme it
with one or two colours in mind it will create the best
effect," she suggests.
The couple likes to entertain a lot. They try
to create an atmosphere conducive to her guests having a great
time. "When we entertain, we open the doors to the garden
area so the place looks more spacious and the guest can also
enjoy fresh breeze," says Nusrat.
It is clear that ensuring all the family has
fun at home is important to Nusrat. "I believe a home is
where we should relax and refuel our energies. It must reflect
our personality and makes us feel safe. Every day provides a
special memory of our home, especially when we see our children
growing up around us." |
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