Happiness, vivacity, enthusiasm and
chirpiness become strange phenomena. Only the dark clouds of
loneliness, gloominess, hopelessness and wretchedness seem the
four corners of the globe. Despite craving for happiness, one
canít discover few moments of actual joy, serenity and
contentment.
Depression is a condition when extreme
melancholy and reduced vitality surrounds a human being. It
makes him feel unhappy, hopeless, worthless, crest fallen and
disappointed. The one affected with this ailment doesnít feel
at home in any activity. His/her thoughts are conquered by
pessimism. During this phase of psychological disorderliness,
everyone seems to be an enemy of the person suffering from
this condition; life becomes empty and aimless, heart feels to
be submerged and terror stricken. It feels that one would
never be able to succeed in any walk of life thatís why the
afflicted person always wishes to withdraw from the outside
world.
Types of depression
The fourth leading cause of disability in
the world, depression affects different people differently.
Some continuously feel downcast for a long period of time
while in some cases the waves of depression harass the human
beings with various ups and downs in their intensity.
Actually, most of us are not aware to the various types of
depression which include Atypical, Psychotic, Manic and
Dysthymia.
Major depression is believed to be the most
common form of depression. Being involved in routine life is
not less than a hefty burden for major depression afflicted
persons. Dearth of enthusiasm and the absence of eagerness to
do something are quite high up in their attitude.
Another highly prevailing but still unknown
type of depression is Atypical depression. Itís the type in
which sufferer is at times able to experience moments of
elation. Interestingly, people who undergo atypical depression
think that outside events i.e. success, attention, weather and
praise control their mood. The waves of depression harass the
human being with various ups and downs in their intensity and
it may last for months or a sufferer may live with it forever.
Such type of depression is very common in todayís youth.
The sufferer of psychotic depression
imagines frightening and negative sounds and images. They
begin to hear and see imaginary things, sounds, voices and
visuals that do not exist. These are referred to as
hallucinations.
Dysthymia afflicted people just walk around
seeming depressed, simply sad, blue or melancholic. Medication
is beneficial for this type of depression.
Manic depression can be defined as an
emotional disorder characterised by changing mood shifts from
depression to mania which can sometimes be quite rapid. Itís
believed that people who suffer from manic depression have an
extremely high rate of suicide.
It is observed that a typical depression
not only affects the people emotionally but it imparts drastic
impacts upon physical and mental health as well. And at times
it bounds some people, especially youngsters, to be addicted
to drugs. The duration of being depressed varies from man to
man and it also highly depends upon the reason being down in
the dumps. But the thing which is very much similar in all
depression stricken people is that throughout this particular
phase they find themselves sinking in a ëmarshy landí of
frustration, stress and despair continuously. For this reason
if the person comes across few moments of joy they are soon
subjugated by those peaty feelings that have rooted in him/her
due to some particular incidents.
The fundamental causes
Though grasping the accurate causes of
depression is a hard nut to crack, however, the fundamental
reasons can be categorised according to different age groups.
Being overlooked by parents, dearth of family get together,
failure in examination (and in sports as well), constant
discords between parents, breaking up with close friends are
some of the teenage depression causes. And in the group of
grown ups (aged 20-30), depression is the outcome of
unemployment, family turmoil, separations, tiresome study
routine, inferiority complex and inability to perform
professional duties efficiently etc. Besides, people who have
serious illnesses are more expected to suffer from depression.
It is worth mentioning that according to a research women
experience depression twice as often as men.
Where this modern era has granted us a
number of amenities there it also has given roots to chaos at
the same time. And this hurly-burly in life also grounds evils
like frustration, disappointment and depression.
The non-bookish, practical remedies
Just like the beauty of little brightening
stars canít be experienced without dark sky similarly
happiness canít be observed without grief. To some it may
seem bookish language but itís reality that just like thorns
are permanent part of rose, similarly sorrows are eternal
element of life. And rather being dejected we ought to tackle
them adeptly and courageously. But the question is how and
from where to bring this courage back?
The abnormality of mood, caused by
depression, can be brought back to track by recalling the
happiest moments of life. Recollection of these golden jiffies
works like brightening stars on a dark sky and assist in
fetching back the colours of life.
Hanging out with pals and sharing the
problems with close ones also help reducing the stress.
Besides, light and soft music performs the key role in
dropping down the despair and gloominess. If one doesnít let
oneís feelings out, they keep mounting somewhere in the
heart. And consequently it gives birth to distressed thoughts
and causes restlessness.
And the final wordsÖ
There is a five letter word, called
ìFaithî. A word whose meaning is taught to all of us from
the very beginning of school life but unfortunately only few
of us become conversant with the real essence and strength of
this glorious word.
Faith, which is defined as having complete
trust and confidence on Almighty Allah, is the power which
makes one realise, whether thereís any adversity or
excellence, it is just because of the will of Almighty Allah.
The Creator of all of us Himself has promised, ìAllah burdens
not any soul beyond its capacity" [2:287]. Then how is it
possible that He would choose us for something which is beyond
our powers, beyond our abilities? They say, ìWhat lies behind
us and what lies before us are tiny matters as compare to what
lies within us.î If one paints the walls of his heart and
mind with a solution amalgamated with ìconfidence and trust
on God,î it is in the bag that one would never be depressed
at any moment of his life. Because the purest and most
dependable thing on the globe is motherís love and He is the
one who loves His creature more than seventy mothers do.